are weโ„ข
you've got a question waiting

soโ€ฆ are we?

because someone had to ask ๐Ÿ‘€

coming soon to the App Store
โœ“ you're on the list
iOS waitlist ยท Android below

how it works
01

ask the question

Send a private one-tap "what are we?" to anyone in your contacts.

02

you both answer

Choose where you stand. Neither of you sees the other's pick โ€” unless you both choose the same thing. No awkward guessing, no one out on a limb.

03

keep the receipt

Match, and are weโ„ข saves the date and lets you add a photo โ€” a little keepsake.


who it's for

for anyone you've ever wondered "what are we?" about. partners, situationships, slow burns, best friends, almost-somethings โ€” anyone worth defining.


someone's waiting ๐Ÿ‘€

on Android? get the drop.
โœ“ you're on the list